How not to mess your current life stage?

I was always told that if I miss a stage in life it will catch up to me at a later stage in life. Well…there is full truth to the previous statement although few may disagree. I am after the 95 confidence level in any case. Life goes according to the stages unfortunately. I know some people that decided to grow quick and now when I meet them they are living the stage that I lived couple of years ago. Now this get confusing because the very same people decided to be bigger… and are younger again. They are actually refusing to grow now. I am happy that they are finally seeing the light. It is important that at some point you really need to open up and throw away the eye blinders. If you don't realise that you in a rut, somebody must pull you out before you miss the entire life trying to grow up quick.

The point about life stage is that, you will not fully understand what people are going through until you are there. When they talk about the challenges they are facing…it doesn't click into you reach the very same stage. In whatever life stage you are embrace it and its challenges. It is there to teach you a lesson, don't forget to note the lesson regardless of how messy it can be sometimes. As they say when life stage throw at you lemons make lemonade. The aim is not to try to solve every challenge in that stage but rather manage it. Manage the challenge so that it does not get out of control. Those that are too lofty to be tackled go with a flow and don't try too hard to look for solution, life or God will provide one. Just embrace the challenges and enjoy them as well. Trying to solve every problem put a stress upon you and you end up giving/messing up altogether. Most times the more you try not to make mistakes the more mistakes you make. In actual fact the more mess you make of your life. So is the same with the stage…hence the title how not to mess up your current life stage. Donald say go and enjoy but be careful…enjoying the stage does not mean that each stage must have a negative evidence/memory /consequences associated with it. One should still live a responsible and accountable lifestyle but do not be too hard upon yourself for the mistakes you are making it is part of that stage.